Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Wow.... has it really been that long?

I can't believe that it has been almost 7 weeks since I have posted about us on here.  I have done the biz stuff that is true just not our flexi-learning journey update.  So much to tell ...... so little space to do it in!  Long line of photos to follow ;)

Since Oct we have been white-baiting, playing on the beach, on holiday in Picton, catching up with friends and family, fishing, making crafts, down the park, riding bikes, celebrating International pirate day, Jasmine became 'Reading Star of the Month' at the local library, celebrating Jack o Lantern night, going to Art Club, selling crafts, making booklets on just about everything, exploring the West Coast, celebrating Diwali, getting ready to celebrate Hanukkah and dressing up as Smurfs. Phew!!!
The kids checking out our biggest whitebait haul and the last.

Us on a walk at Karaka Point while on holiday in Picton

The kids with their costumes ready for Halloween story-time at the library.

The Jack o Lanterns.  We tend to focus on this as it is an Irish tradition.

Us on a walk in Nelson's Creek, West Coast

Drawing Diwali pictures for Lakshmi to come bring us wealth - still have our fingers crossed for that one!

The 'Reading Star of the Month'

Trying to sell our wares before we were rained off due to unusual West Coast weather ;)

Jasmine and Himself at 'Take a kid Fishing' down at Hokitika River.  Daniel is waiting in the rocks for his turn.


Papa Smurf as face-painted by his sister!  The kids have become fascinated with my old Smurfs, some vending machine ones they got in Oz & stories Himself is telling them from a miss-spent youth watching T.V.
Liam is still loving his job, the kids are loving their freedom and I am still loving our flexi-learning journey and so glad to have this time with the kids.  Some days are just down right MENTAL though most are filled with laugher, fun and learning so that makes up for the others and convinces me we are still on the right garden path.

Hope this finds you all happy, healthy and content

Arohanui
Y
www.becominghealthy.co.nz

Friday, November 8, 2013

TNT - The Necessary Three

Recently I heard a talk by a woman (Star Munroe) saying that her life transforming action, and the thing she got all of her clients to do was something called the Magic 3. This tool, in her own words, had moved her from destructive to dazzling. 

I have encountered this tool before, and you may have too, only under a different name such as Most Important Three or Most Important Tasks (MIT) and I'm sure there are loads more names for this self-help technique.  In fact I've even made up my own The Necessary Three (TNT) TNT because this tool is dynamite when used. ;)  Essentially though you make a list of 3 things that are small and achievable which you commit to completing every day. The two key ingredients are achievable tasks and commitment to do them everyday.

The funny thing is that back in June I made a decision, after feeling that I was just floating through life at the whim of any passing breeze, that I would make sure I did at least 3 things each day; exercise for at least 10 minutes, tap on negative emotions or limiting beliefs and write positive things about the day in a diary.  At the same time I made three priorities for Home-educating our kids as I was feeling that things weren't flowing as well as they were.  Each week day I would read, write and do some maths with them; everything else was a bonus.  I hadn't even put the two together - the decision and the tool.

I made the commitment and moved from day to day.  Some days it was easy to do all 3 things for both me and home-education while others days it was a struggle to do even one.  On my struggle days I did give myself and the kids a break by choosing to only focus on my 3 however before long I'd realise I missed having that structure and would soon be back on the wagon to do my 3 and the home-educating 3.  I didn't always have control of the reins but they were in hand at least and we were going in the right direction.

I could feel the rhythm of up and down days however it wasn't until I heard about the Magic 3 that my epiphany happened. The days when I felt good and things flowed more positively were actually the days I did my 3 tasks and the 3 for home-educating.  By completing those 6 little things (each of which was no more than 20 minutes - except for reading which the kids would have me do all day if they could!) I had a huge feeling of achievement that set me up to actually want to do more. Even if I didn't do more I still felt really good because I had completed my tasks for the day.

TNT (The Necessary Three) is such a simple method, so effective for transformation and best of all completely FREE ;). It only takes 21 days to form a habit so beyond that the commitment part is just a daily task like brushing your teeth or checking the mail. The tasks themselves can be whatever you want as long as they are easily achievable each day and you commit to achieving them.  It could be waking by a certain time, meditating, exercising for a set time, having breakfast, tapping, drinking a set amount of water, going to bed at a certain time .......... and the list goes on. 

By making the 3 tasks small to start with they will be easier to commit to and therefore easier to achieve.  When you achieve them each day you will then have a renewed belief in yourself and positive feelings will flow. You can always change the 3 tasks or add to them later when you are ready.  The focus is about taking action, action which will make you feel good, action which will move you towards your goals and action which will move you to Becoming Healthy.

Arohanui
Y

www.becominghealthy.co.nz

Friday, October 11, 2013

It's Show Time!!

I know, I know, I know!!!  You only just got finished reading my huge post on Bach Flowers the other day and then I go and bombard you with another update ;)

Well the reason being that I had such a great few days creating and helping themselves make their very first movies.  We found a fantastic book in The Warehouse for under $10 on how to create animated movies along with the software needed to complete it.  It is for years 8 plus so I really did get it for future interests however once I showed them a little they just wanted to hear more and more!

There was modelling clay with the book and as I was not that keen on letting them rip into the clay just yet they asked if they could make a movies with Lego.  Sure - why not?!  After all Lego is the main activity in this house from dawn till dusk at the moment ;)

So first to the story-boarding.  We checked in the book to see what one would look like then had a bit of a debate about weather Friends and Lego City were allowed to be in the same movie.  After some length of time and heat it appears they can't be ;)  So two storyboards it is and one camera ready for action.  I was really pleased with how well the storyboarding went as usually when the kids, well Jasmine actually, tell stories it ends up being a mini soap opera! On this occasion they both came up with quite concise ideas and parts of the story - Yay!

Trying out the set for size
Jasmine got to make hers first as Daniel wanted to see how it was done - or maybe how it is not done ;)  We put all the figures into position and diligently moved each slightly as Jasmine took photos in between moves.  She had it all under control so I wasn't allowed to look and after a lot of fiddling and 83 photos later we were done!

Kate getting her tools to fix the jet ski
Talk about laugh when we first saw it!!!!  I have managed to work out how to slow it down now and later we will have a go at adding sound which will be yet another eye-opening learning experience for us all.  After seeing Jasmine's we decided to make 'sets' for subsequent movies and so we were all prepared for Daniel's 'Grumpy Fireman goes to work' movie to be made.  Daniel decided he would move the figures and I could take the photos - not sure this made any improvements though ;)

Making the movie sets
I just had to share as so elated about all the learning, creating, sharing and connecting we have done ;)  Plus I thought you might like a good laugh to see you into the weekend!  Learnt heaps about converting files and all sorts so, as mentioned, no sound as yet as wanted to leave that learning curve for the next movies I think ;)  Look out for the Grumpy Fireman's Rolly Poley and one of the Friends pretending to be a dog!

 
 
 


Arohanui
Y

www.becominghealthy.co.nz

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Using Bach Flower Remedies


Many people have heard of Rescue Remedy however some are unaware of the other remedies within this system. Bach designed these to be used by all however he did intend them to be used in a particular way. When used as Bach intended the flower remedies are an incredibly powerful and safe tool to aid healing and help in personal development.
Around the turn of the centaury Edward Bach was a physician working in a London hospital when he noticed that even though patients had the same diseases they were suffering very differently.  On talking with them more he realised that at the heart of each person’s problem was an emotional issue. “Thus, behind all disease lie our fears, our anxieties, our greed, our likes and dislikes. Let us seek these out and heal them, and with the healing of them will go the disease from which we suffer.” E Bach (The 12 Healers and other remedies).

Although physical conditions can be linked to emotions, and this is exactly where Edward Bach first began his investigations, Bach Flower Remedies are purely for emotional states and should always be selected as such.   Many of us have had a headache however there are few who suffer with it exactly the same, as Bach discovered, and for this reason the focus should be on how the person is experiencing the headache emotionally when using Bach Flower Remedies.  “Take no notice of the disease, think only of the outlook on life of the one in distress.” E Bach (The 12 Healers and other remedies).  Also in focusing on the individual and their emotions, changes can often be detected long before physical symptoms’, illness or disease occurs.  How often have you noticed that you are reacting differently or not feeling quite right only to have some physical manifestation occur after?  This is the difference that Bach Flower Remedies have – they look at the changing person, moods, reactions and emotions to maintain balance and with it good health.

It is hard not to focus on the physical as after all it is the most obvious. Likewise it can be hard not to link the emotional to the physical when there are many out there showing how affirmations and meditations can help heal us physically.  Essentially they are using the power of the mind to heal which is a valid and important skill to use.  Louise Hay has done some amazing work on Meta-physical conditions and she provides affirmations to help clear negative thoughts and limiting beliefs to help improve physical conditions.  These affirmations can work very well along side Bach Flower Remedies, as any therapy does, and can be useful as a guide to direct questioning about the root issue i.e. If someone has a headache which Louise Hay says is invalidating the self, self criticism and fear; you may ask if there is anything the person is worried or anxious about.  The primary focus with Bach Flower Remedies however should always be on how the person is feeling regardless of physical conditions. The healing energies of the remedies will then support all other work, therapy or treatment.

Bach designed his remedies to be able to be used by all – layperson and professional alike.  “It is its simplicity, combined with its all-healing effects, that is so wonderful. No science, no knowledge is necessary, apart from the simple methods described.” E Bach (The 12 Healers and other remedies).  This may make you wonder why anyone would train in this system of healing or why you would pay for it.  The answer is objectivity of another listening, observing and sensing what we often shut down or ignore.

Bach began by testing on himself.  He found an initial 12 healers that he deemed so important that he released a booklet about them before the other remedies had been found.  These first 12 were Rock Rose, Mimulus, Cerato, Scleranthus, Gentian, Clematis, Water Violet, Impatiens, Agrimony, Centaury, Chicory and Vervain.  The fact that these are the first may also give an indication on how Bach himself was feeling as he found himself on the brink of discovery and finding a new healing system.

Each remedy has its own qualities and healing energies and while there are many that seem similar, i.e. Mimulus and Aspen for fear, with a little investigation into the issues and feelings below the surface the correct remedy with become apparent.  An example of this would be someone with a fear of dogs. The initial emotion is fear however the question which will always get to the bottom of thinks is “why?”  Are they scared due to the size of the dogs or is it the noise they make?  If so this would indicate Mimulus which is for fear of the known (what is there and apparent at the time).  If the fear is because they fear that the dog may bite them, may chase them or may jump up; then Aspen would be more appropriate as this is for fear of the unknown (what may happen or what they imagine is going on).  This is where a Bach Flower Remedy practitioner can be helpful just as a watchful and mindful observer may be.

Most people know and have used Rescue Remedy which is a combination of 5 (as in the liquid) or 6 remedies (as in the cream).  This is the only pre-prepared treatment bottle Bach accepts and it is particularly useful in extremely stressful, highly demanding or very emotional situations.  It is not however intended as a long term treatment or solution.  Rescue Remedy helps in the immediate ‘crisis’; when there is not the time, or often the inclination due to the situation, to find the remedies needed for long term healing.  Just as first aiders put a dressing over a wound till the hospital can assess it so should we use Rescue Remedy.

At times we could easily go through and select most if not all 38 remedies!  This may seem like a good cover all approach, however with Bach Flower Remedies (and many other holistic healing systems) less is more.  For this reason no more than 7 remedies should be selected at any one time. 

To help with selection and understanding of remedies Bach put them into 7 different categories; Uncertainty, Oversensitivity, Fear, Over care for others welfare, Loneliness, Insufficient Interest in the Present Circumstances and Despondency and Despair.  Each of the 38 remedies fit into one of these categories, see below with Rescue Remedy being separate.

Uncertainty: Cerato, Scleranthus, Gentian, Gorse, Hornbeam, Wild Oat.

Over-sensitivity to influences and ideas: Agrimony, Centaury, Walnut, Holly.

Fear: Rock Rose, Mimulus, Cherry Plum, Aspen, Red Chestnut

Over-care for welfare of others: Chicory, Vervain, Vine, Beech, Rock Water.

Loneliness: Water Violet, Impatiens, Heather.

Insufficient interest in present circumstances: Clematis, Honeysuckle, Wild Rose, Olive, White Chestnut, Mustard, Chestnut Bud.

Despondency or despair: Larch, Pine, Elm, Sweet Chestnut, Star of Bethlehem, Willow, Oak, Crab Apple.

Once the remedies have been selected 2 drops from each stock bottle is added to 30 mls of spring water to create a ‘treatment bottle’.  From this treatment bottle at least 16 drops are taken each day, more if needed. These drops can be spaced out throughout the day or split so that half are taken upon rising in the morning and half when retiring for the evening.  The great thing about these drops is that they can also be added to any food which often is the easiest way for those not able to carry a treatment bottle around with them all day.

Some have likened the process of healing with Bach Flower Remedies to peeling an onion where the releasing of surface emotions only uncovers another layer and yet another.  It is through continuing to acknowledge and recognize these changing emotions that healing and clearing really occur.  Bach Flower Remedies have no known side effects so there is only benefit from continuing with remedies until emotions issues have be dealt with and cleared.  If a remedy is not the right one for you then it simply will no longer have an effect.  The time has come to select a new treatment bottle.

Bach Flower Remedies have been around for decades now yet their potential in healing and well-being is still only just being discovered.  Have you tried them and enjoyed their benefits?  I’m happy that you have such a great tool.  If not maybe now is the right time for you!

For even more information about Edward Bach and his remedies go to http://www.becominghealthy.co.nz/Products.html where you can find free downloads of his work.
Arohanui
Y
www.becominghealthy.co.nz

Monday, September 30, 2013

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Jenny Johnston, an EFT Universe Trainer, warmly invites you to join her in Christchurch (March/April 2014) on a 4 day Intensive EFT Level 1 & 2 Live Workshop. 

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is a form of psychological acupressure, based on the same energy meridians used in traditional acupuncture to treat physical and emotional ailments for over five thousand years, but without the invasiveness of needles. Instead, simple tapping with the fingertips is used to input kinetic energy onto specific meridians while you think about your specific problem (whether it is a traumatic event, an addiction, pain, etc).


There are 5 areas of life that are challenging for people, over and over again. Those areas are: Love, Money, Health, Work, and Spirituality.  EFT can help in all of these areas as it works to clear energy blocks and limiting beliefs which are holding us back in life. Learn how to release stuck parts of your life and learn how to add EFT to your existing set of tools in your professional and personal practise. 

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Sunday, September 15, 2013

Highlights of the last month ...

Well hello again ;)  It has been a busy old month and while our days seem to just tick along whenever I look at photos to put on here it always amazes me all the things the kids have been up to.  In the moment sometimes things feel rushed, frantic and sometimes just out right mental!! Looking back at the photos though the moments seem calm and they remind me of all the lovely aspects. They seem so serene and happy, a fragment of time caught on film.

So I thought this month I would choose 4 highlights for us and offer our lovely photos;

Monsters Birthday - 29th August 2013
Daniel decided that his beloved Monster needed an official birthday. Once again Daniel knew exactly the 'recipe' needed (thankfully minus any cheese) and dictated it for Jasmine to write.  My job then was to decipher and assist ;)

Daniel and Monster with cake.
Jasmine decided that she needed to make a dessert for Monster's birthday.  So she created 'scrooge scruge pie' which was a pie with apple, pear and marshmallows in it.  Actually, to our surprize, it turned out very nice without any trace of the pile of marshmallows heaped in!

Jasmine with her dessert ready to go into the oven.

Cupcake Day- officially 26 August but as we were away we participated on 2 September 2013
For the second year in a row the kids have fund raised for the SPCA by making, decorating and selling cupcakes.  They love the whole process - especially counting the money at the end ;)  Liam hosts our little sale and prepares everyone ahead of time to bring coins so that the process is fairly pain free.

Themselves with their icing and sugar laden cupcakes!
This year we raised $20.10 which we then took down to the local SPCA in Hokitika so they could add it to their stash.  We try to go down weekly to pat the cats, scruffle the dogs and take any willing participants for a walk.  Daniel has recently fallen in love with a cat there who he pats and plays with happily and as usual - despite its actual sex - it is a boy ;)


White-Baiting - 8 September 2013
Being on the Coast for over a year now it seemed only fitting and about time that some White-baiting was attempted.  The kids, and himself, were very excited to get down there so with a bit of advice from a few 'in the know' and a few 'not really in the know', off they went.  Himself and the kids went down by bike along the tow path while I took the car, equipment, food and drink down to the river mouth. 

Themselves with their fishing nets trying their luck.

Most local White-baiters were leaving with comments of 'not running today' but we were there, armed and prepared so White-baiting we will go.  After around 30 mins of Liam on the scoop net and the kids with their fishing nets we had success!!! Not running indeed!  Well maybe not all of them were running but the 2, yes 2, that we caught certainly were ;)  One almost got away as the kids wanted to hold it in their hands however Jasmine was determined to have White-bait fritters for lunch so scrambled and searched through the rocks till she retrieved it! 

Our grand catch for lunch - stick not included ;)
 And so Himself and Herself junior had one white-bait each adorning some potato fritters.


Trip to Hari Hari - 15 September 2013

Today, with the sun shining and the Spring warmth to bolster us, the kids and I decided to venture South a little ways to Hari Hari.  In passing, on other trips, I had noticed a few little walks and a display about Guy Menzie crash landing there after his solo trans Tasman flight yet we had never stopped to explore properly. 

With bikes, food, kids and dog loaded up we set off.  The kids loved the long stretches of undisturbed footpath to bike on in Hari Hari and soon spotted a park to play in.  From a distance a woman was there seemingly fixing bits in the playground however once we arrived we discovered that it was a local artist who was creating an amazing mosaic feature.  She discussed her plans for covering it and creating a place which can be used all year round and for weddings as the kids raced around the labyrinth of tiles and mosaic.

Themselves following the path to the sundial and back.

As we talked and praised her 8 year, and on-going, journey of creating a unique public space she asked if we would like to add to it by painting a tile too.  Like to?  Like to?  YES PLEASE!!! The kids each worked away on their tiles in the sunshine and we talked about how they would be able to come back in the future and visit their tile (the lady had told us where they would be). 

Herself's Pukeko and Himself's Monster
Jasmine must of been giving it lots of thought afterwards as at teatime she announced that one day she was going to go back and get married in Hari Hari and see her tile ............ and you know what I don't doubt that she would ;)

Hope this finds you all revelling in your own bit of sunshine and warmth wherever you are.

Arohanui
Y

www.becominghealthy.co.nz

Saturday, August 17, 2013

Shame on me!!!

I was a little shocked to see that yet another month has gone by without me writing on here so I quickly set to work to download photos from the camera, ready to begin a post.  Let me tell you that I was even more shocked to find that I have hardly taken any photos either!!! Shame on me.

Honestly we have been busy and active. Yet somewhere in the midst of enjoying the moments and each other I have forgotten to record them digitally.  I never was one for taking photos. Liam is much better at remembering, as our record of past travels show.  Since home educating though I have become a little more diligent about getting the camera out - until now it seems.  Must be the holiday mode still lingering ;)

Our biggest moment over the past month was Daniel taking an interest in riding his pedal bike, as opposed to his running bike.  He was a little fearful though that he would fall so I promised most lovingly to hold on and not let go.  Up and down the footpath we went with me holding on and around the block we went with me in a running squat to minimise the aching back.  Daniel was very excited that he was riding and less than understanding that I may need a 'break'!! 

A little helping hand
Right time for the troops to be called in.  Himself was requested to come down the park for his turn at support.  We all got ready and headed off.  Jasmine in lead with Daniel and himself in tow.  As we walked along I could hear himself give a few encouraging words and then....... 'Right Daniel when we get to the park I'm going to give you a really big push and you keep going'.   WHAT!!!!!!!  That wasn't the plan - let him go???!!!  What about my promise to hold on and guide?  What about himself's turn to have a sore back?

'On the grass though ay?' I asked himself.  'No', he replied as if I was a little soft in the head, 'it'll be too hard on the grass.'  Oh I thought ..... hold it in......... don't comment yet.  Into the park we go and I wait with bated breath hoping that my boy will not be making his 6th trip to A & E before he is 5!  'Are you ready Daniel?' himself asks '1,2,3..... go!' I run along side waiting hoping and ................ low and behold Daniel is pedalling and riding by independently - Yay!!!! 

Daniel up and going
I would have been holding onto that bike seat till he was 10 if needed (probably even older if he asked nicely enough) so thank you to himself for scaring the wits out of me and getting Daniel up and going ;) Since then there is no stopping the boy and I'm having to run beside just to keep up with the pair of them!  The favourite is a grassy hill a few blocks from here which they both love speeding down and clambering back up.  His love of riding his 'racing bike' is so great that he even wanted to take it to the shops yesterday - which is literally across the road!

Themselves racing down the hill.

Hope this finds you all pedalling along happily.

Arohanui
Y

www.becominghealthy.co.nz