Part of living away from your home country is that feeling of not quite belonging, of being a slight outsider. Sometimes this is a good thing and other times a horrible lonely existence. When we were in England I managed to have the good fortune of being invited to an International Women's group.
This group was a fantastic mix of nationalities from all over the world, including a few English. Originally being held in a family home the group, with all the kids in tow, grew so much that it is now held in a children's centre. It was such a great feeling to be with these women who knew what it was like to have children away from 'home', missing our of family and little things like people using the same expressions as you. Every second week a creche was organized in one of the rooms while we shared our perspectives on a topic or had someone tell us about their country and culture in the room next door. It was an eye opening and wonderful learning experience.
I never actually realised, until joining this group, how important it is to have that bonding with other women. No men around just mothers and women sharing experiences and love. Even now separated by continents and oceans I still keep in contact, actually while I am writing this, through Facebook and e-mails. It really did have a huge positive impact on me and my kids. It's so nice to know that regardless of race, religion or background there are common bonds that hold us all together.
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